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Some people are just negative, and it has nothing to do with you.

Something that has been on my mind lately, the negativity of others.  It seems like everywhere you look, there's this conflict or that conflict. People just seem to want to be hateful,  for no real good reason. This past week, I have been on the receiving end of someones hatefulness. There was no reason for it, they assumed I'd wronged them without actually looking at the facts of the situation. Even after I told them that I did not do what they claimed I'd done. I was called a liar for standing up for myself.  And when the facts were brought to light, that I actually didn't wrong them, that the situation they were facing had nothing to do with me at all really, they still continue to carry around hateful feelings towards me.  What I have learned from this situation is that when someone hates or says they hate you, they don't actually hate you, they hate who they think you are. In the midst of this new accusation, I've also had things that they thought I d...